The first book of the bible which is Genesis talks about gays, their community, how God despises what they do and how he destroyed two cities because of what they do. The last book of the bible also concludes with it as it tells us how God is going to judge Sodom. In between these two, several scriptures have also condemned it.
Don’t deceive yourself that it is natural or you were born with it. Nobody was born gay. It’s not possible to be born gay. The bible says a man is tempted when he is drawn away from his lust and enticed. James 1:13 says ” let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man. But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away from his lust, and enticed. When lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.”
So it is not right and if you are engaged in it, repent and start living right. Lust is an evil desire. Stop looking at magazines that get you into such situations. Stop visiting a gay website. Don’t flirt with those things because there can destroy your life.
Because a lot of people are doing something doesn’t make it right. The bible says the road that leads to destruction is wide and many travels that way. But narrow is the way that leads to life and only a few will find it. So if it is popular in your community, it doesn’t mean it is right. If you want to stop it, you can do it. If you are a Christian just say ” in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I will no longer do it” and the power of the Holy Spirit will be there to help you.
But if you keep protecting and nurturing it, it will grow and one day bind you. When you get stuck in this act, you are bringing demons into your life. The earlier you free yourself from this act, the better.